For the record, pretty dickish comments for someone that is already back in a relationship with their gf.
My apologies man.. Not trying to come off like an ass.. It's just that we've all witnessed how this whole thing has gone for you, and many of us have been in the exact same situation (and before you say "no, she's different, this is nothing like what you guys went through"-- she may be different in some ways, but she's a woman.. And they're all the same in a lot of ways) so it's tough to sit by idly while we see a comrade travelling the same trail as we have.. Especially when we know how shitty the end of the trail looks.
My apologies man.. Not trying to come off like an ass.. It's just that we've all witnessed how this whole thing has gone for you, and many of us have been in the exact same situation (and before you say "no, she's different, this is nothing like what you guys went through"-- she may be different in some ways, but she's a woman.. And they're all the same in a lot of ways) so it's tough to sit by idly while we see a comrade travelling the same trail as we have.. Especially when we know how shitty the end of the trail looks.
Personally, I just want the best for you man.
All of this^.
Just looking out for YOUR best interests Josh. I've been down that long dark rabbit hole. You know a bit of my history. As Steve said, in the end, they are all women, and share a lot of characteristics. Wishing you the best. But just watched another buddy here where I live take the same path, try and save a relationship that was already over, a couple months went by, and it all came to a disastrous end. If you all just got back together, and you're already having disagreements, what has really changed. Love is a double edged sword my friend. Don't let it be the bain of your existence. Some people truly just have to learn for themselves. I'm one of them. I've been in love, truly in love, but that can and will cloud your judgement, and make your decisions quite biased in the wrong direction. Sometimes it takes perspective to truly see it. You being on the inside, cannot truly remove yourself from the situation and have the perspective we do on the outside. Unbiased...
I wish you the best Josh, truly I do. I've spoken my peace... I won't touch the subject again...
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