Mike,
I think Hector's reply was directed at me. As for your problem, I'd try and get a new connector or directly solder the connections like the other guy stated. I'd try that first. If that doesn't work, test your stator. To test your stator, leave your bike off. Find the connector coming out of the stator and hook up the ohm meter to each combination of the 3 leads. The resistance of each pair of leads should be around .3 ohms on the lowest setting of the ohm meter (1x i think). Good luck, I hate figuring these electrical problems out.
1. The first thing I'd try is fixing the burnt connection
2. If you get that fixed, and it still isn't charging, your probably need a new rectifier or stator, most likely rectifier, but to test the stator, do what I said above. You shouldn't need to take anything apart.
Hector,
I just bought the battery this summer, so I'm pretty sure I don't need a new battery. Maybe I just need to get a battery tender, would probably be easiest. Have you ever heard of anything like I described though, with a wire or switch shorting out? I used to be able to leave my bike sit for weeks at a time and it would fire right up, maybe its just time for a new bike

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